My husband is suffocating me!!!?

Tell him you are not a clone of him, he married you because he loved you, which included your differences..his behaviour is very controlling and would upset many people from another culture or not....when he next says things like " here we think like this"...tell him, well it is a good job you married me then as I think differently and the next time he says, " we do it like this" tell him...you do it then, if you want it don't like that! Be ertive with this man, he may be a hard working attorney...but he is your husband and not an attorney at home