I really do not know what to do with my wife...?

Maybe she married you just to get residency. Or she was forced in some way to marry you. I don't understand why any woman that clingy to her family would ever decide to leave them by getting married. She should want to spend more time with you, especially as newlyweds. Unless you are very abusive to her, or don't respect her in bed? Are you very rough? Is your hygiene good? Do you shout a lot? Are you scary? I honestly don't know what's going on, but these are just some ideas. Maybe go visit her family together with her, so you get time with her and she gets to see her family. Perhaps her upbringing made her like this.